“There’s always fence to be fixed.”
People say this all the time about life on a farm.
I don’t know if I heard it before I married a farmer or not. But if I did, I didn’t get it. Much like a lot of the people who say it, I wouldn’t have understood just how true it is. I didn’t know it wasn’t an over exaggeration in the least. If I had understood that, I might have thought twice before I said , “I do.”
But true it is. Fence isn’t a one and done kind of thing. You put it up. You fix it. You adjust it. Weeds and trees grow into it. You tear it down and build it new. Just when you do that a crazy cow comes along and rips it all down.
So, you put on your gloves and put it up again.
Fence goofs up all sorts of plans when it doesn’t work right. It makes a person sore, and tired when they have to fix it. Only a handful of people are left in this country that are willing to deal with it.
But that handful are unlikely to give it up for much of anything. It’s in their blood. They need the work. The sweat. The sore.
A few years into this life and I hated fence. I would have told a woman to run like hell from a man who thought he needed it around.
But time has a way of bringing perspective.
And now I’d tell you this.
Hang on tight to any man with the patience, the strength, and the sheer grit to lead a life of building, fixing, and redoing fence. It’s a job that never ends, never gets any easier, and often leaves you exhausted and sore. The only reward comes from knowing you’ve done what you could, in the time you have, for what you’ve got.
And if he can do that for fence, you’d better believe he will do that for you too.
Kate Lambert grew up in northern Illinois, not on a farm but active in FFA and showing livestock.
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